Internet Dating Safety for Country Folks

Dec 28, 2012 09:42:26Posted by John Skorick, MyAKA Founder & CEO

Internet Dating Safety for Country Folks

Online dating can be a boon for people who don't live close to an urban area. Single folks living in a rural part of the country don't have the luxury of meeting people while shopping downtown or hanging out at the local bar. Not to mention, small-town dwellers most likely want to date people from outside their neighborhood to avoid any awkward encounters with people they know from their community. However, safety is paramount whether you live in New York City or way out in the countryside, so here is some online dating advice for women and men who love that fresh air.

1. Casting Your Net
When you begin dating online, you may find that it's best to cast a wide net. This means looking for people that may not live in your exact area, but a drivable distance away. This will allow you to find potential dates who are a bit farther away, thus avoiding the chances of bumping into your nearest neighbor on the site. However, be careful not to get involved with someone who's too far away - long distance relationships typically only work between two people who've spent plenty of time together early on in their courtship.

2. Spotting Signs of Danger
You may feel that living in a small community makes you safer in your day-to-day life, but online scammers don't care where you live, as long as they can exploit you and your personal information. You need to be on the lookout for fraudsters who may be trying to access your email, phone number or address for nefarious purposes. Having a second mobile number that you can give out to potential dates can protect your safety, because you'll be able to get rid of it should a potential date turn out to be untrustworthy.

3. Finding a Common Area
Though it may be a bit of a challenge due to your respective locations, when meeting up with someone for the first time, it's essential that it be in a safe, public space. You should never invite someone you don't know over to your home, nor should you accept an invitation to visit a stranger at his or her personal residence. Instead, try to find somewhere public. If there aren't any bars or restaurants in your area, suggest a local park or somewhere else where you know people will be around. If you have to drive somewhere to meet up in public, make sure you both arrive at the date separately - it's never wise to ride in a car with someone unfamiliar.

Additionally, you should make sure that a friend or family member knows when you're heading out on the date and where you'll be going. Make sure that this person has access to a car so that he or she can come and help you out should you feel that you're in danger.

Online dating can be a fantastic tool for people who choose to live in rural areas, as long as they keep their head on their shoulders and play it safe. You may trust the people in your community, but it's always best to be guarded when interacting with strangers over the internet.